Don't Go Rogue On What Good You Do!
I would always tear myself down, even when I accomplished something amazing!
I remember coming home from school one day with an A- on painting assignment. In my opinion (now) that’s a pretty awesome grade. But for the past me it wasn’t good enough. I remember spending hours going over that painting and picking it apart. What I thought was good work just a few hours ago now discussed me. I would go through this vicious cycle of self-criticism all through my childhood and young adult life. I came to the conclusion that no matter what I did I was never good enough!
Things changed though when I tweeted my perception of myself! I WAS good enough! I look at things differently now. Instead of letting the someone else opinion of my capabilities affect me, I let the effort, and growth I gained in doing the task remind me of how awesome I am. Gone are the days of destroying myself over what someone thoughts of my work because I know that as long as I worked hard and felt I did good work then I achieved greatness.
Rogue would tear herself down all the time. She spent most of the time when she was learning how to use her powers thinking they made her a monster. It took her spending time with the X-men to learn what amazing good they could help her do for others!
Do you overlook the good you do by only seeing the what isn't perfect or what you could have done better?
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